3.4.10

Real Success

Success always brings more confidence and it paints everything yellow..Handling success is also a skill which is possessed by very few..We have been hearing people talking about failure and handling failures.From every corner we came to know that Failure can be seen as a stepping stone,instead of mulling over it ,one should strive to realize ones mistakes and put more efforts to gain success.We haven't quite heard about handling success. When one has many options that success brings along it is again another battle to deal with it.




And,i came to a conclusion that one should know to which level one should take the sweetness of the victory.

There is an incident that backs up my point which i want to share .

There lived a guy who is very intelligent and blessed with good values . He never worked hard to become topper.School life has been a cake walk for him .It had become very obvious for him to top his college grades  too. Only thing he knows is winning. Everything seems to be alright . He was not actually sure of how important it is to achieve what he wants..He just know to come first in the rat race.It became his destiny.

He graduated from college with highest percentile and won the race. Yeah ,now he is in the world of  marathons. He is not sure of which race he wants to enter. He never know what success means. How to measure it?  He was directionless just running and never knowing what success would be like. He might end up joining a MNC ..Is he successful ?In which way ?What is the right measure of success? He won the race..But is it the right one ? Never know what his real potential might have been.



We are very much connected with peer-comparison Stigma that is making our real potential fake. One should realize his potential and choose the right way to achieve it . You should not start on wrong goals.. Real success comes from winning what you love. Quit the rat race and Pave path for your dreams.Everyone may make you feel out of way or different . No one may appreciate your choice,.But you never are alone in this battle.One day you can smile with content filled eyes. Then you can call it real success. You should make it your profession for which you are passionate about not the one you can succeed.
 
Do not remain as the unhappy rich man ,be a poor guy who is rich in happiness!


It hurts


Flowers,Restaurants,Endless chats,long talks on phone were part of history .
Everything changed except the silence .
It asks thousand questions that he can never answer.They remained unanswered .
She realized for the billionth time that love hurts.
she has never thought before that seeing him being happy without her presence in life,would hurt  her .
Beyond hurt she is bleeding.


2.4.10

Pause



When there is so much happening in your life..what makes you calm down ? i want a pause my life for a moment ,to see and realize what is going on ,and to unravel the mysteries hidden.I need a minute to relax and watch my surroundings.

Is there any way to pause my life at this moment? just a small pause,to smile again out of my worries,to pamper myself out of these blues. .


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